Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Lifesong for Orphans - Matching Grant



July 6, 2016


Hello Friends and Family,


Praise God from whom all blessings flow.


As most of you know, our family is in the process of expanding by two little feet.  Three and a half years have passed since God had first laid the idea of adoption heavy on our hearts and so much has changed since we began the process back in February 2013.  When we first began our journey to adopt, we felt God had called us to adopt from Ethiopia. Therefore, we began the paperwork and 8 months later we were on a waiting list to adopt a little girl from Africa. However, two years into our wait, God brought us to a crossroad where we could continue on our path to Africa or follow His lead. Because we know that God’s plan is ultimately greater than our own, we decided to follow the path God laid before us and we began the process of switching our adoption to China’s Waiting Children List. Currently, we are around number 5-7ish on our agency’s list to adopt a little girl…our little girl. Our agency anticipates that our waiting time could be as little as 6 months from the time we submitted our paperwork to China before we are matched with our daughter. We anticipate and prayerfully hope that we are traveling before the end of the year.


While the wait is hard, we know that every day that passes means we are one day closer to bringing our little girl home.  We know God’s timing is perfect, He knows where our little girl is at this very moment and He has His ever loving eye watching over and protecting her.  There is such great comfort in knowing that the Creator of the Universe is watching over our little girl and will continue to do so even after we are holding her tight in our arms. 


Needless to say after three and a half years, we are incredibly excited to see light at the end of the tunnel of our journey to bringing our daughter home!!!  But while this is a very exciting time for our family, it also has the potential to be a very stressful time as well.  The devil is always lurking around, waiting to devour and destroy.  As we face mountains of additional paperwork, prepare our hearts for leaving our two children in the USA while we travel to China and plan our trip to a foreign country, it would be easy to become frightened and scared of the unknown.  If we allow the devil to intervene in our hearts and minds, the process of adopting can seem downright terrifying and impossible.  But we know that with and through God, all things are possible.  God has called us to this path and we know that He will lead the way as long as we trust in His ultimate plan and look to Him for guidance.  As we continue forward, we are asking for our family and friends to partner with us in prayer for our family; for strength, courage and continued faithfulness in Him.  We also ask for prayers for our children, both here in the USA and our little girl in China, who are about to have their lives completely turned upside down, that they feel God’s comfort and peace.  Lastly, please join us in praying for all adoptive families and for the orphan crisis around the world.


Over the course of these past three and a half years, we believe God has grown us as a family in so many ways.  One of the biggest areas of our lives affected was our faith.  We have learned firsthand that God calls us to be more than comfortable in our lives.  In fact, sometimes He calls us out of our comfort zone and wants us to trust that He will make ends meet.  We have found that when we truly surrender to Him in all areas of our lives, He will bless us more than we ever imagined.  As I mentioned above, we are prayerfully hoping to travel to China in 2016 to bring our little girl home.  Currently, based off our adoption agency estimates, we are around $23,900 short of being able to fully finance our adoption (this includes travel expenses).  Because we had initially begun the process of adopting from Ethiopia, most of our fundraising efforts in the past were depleted.  While this may sound discouraging, we are holding onto the hope and faith that God will help piece together the financial aspect of our adoption.  God has already been working miracles and we are excited to announce the most recent blessings we have received from our Heavenly Father.  Through the Grace of God, we have recently been blessed to be selected by Lifesong for Orphans to receive a matching grant for $2000 from Family Christian Ministries of West Michigan!! Therefore, every donation we receive, Family Christian Ministries will match in donations up to $2000.  Will you please consider making a tax-deductible donation to help us meet this matching grant and bring us closer to being able to bring our little girl home?


If you would like to partner with us financially:


*Please make checks payable to “Lifesong for Orphans. In the memo - note “Ayres/#6091” - this assures it will go to the correct account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 40, Gridley, IL 61744.


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*Another option is to give online. Go to www.lifesongfororphans.org/give/donate.  Select “Give to an Adoptive Family.” Complete the online form and fill in Family Account Number: 6091 and Family Name: Ayres 


Thank you for loving us, we are among the richest people in the world with all the relationships we have and the community of people we belong to who displays the Splendor of Jesus.  We can’t wait for our family to all be together!!


For the Glory of Jesus,     


Nic, Nicole, Jaxon and Evelynn Ayres


Lifesong has been blessed with a partner that underwrites all U.S. administrative and fund-raising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to our adoption.   In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to the named non-profit organization. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.   Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $250 will gladly be sent upon request. Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. 




Tuesday, June 7, 2016

A little letter for my little girl...

To my little girl...

Another day passes
And still no word
I know you're out there waiting
For your voice to be heard

I pray God gives you peace
In a way only he can do
My precious child I pray you know
Mom and dad are coming for you

Precious child of my heart
We love you more than words can say
Precious gift from above
You will be with us some day

The wait is so hard
And we know we are so close
Precious daughter of a king we are coming
And it is for his glory we will boast!

For only God can bring us together
And we will praise his holy name
For this journey has been his will for our family
His ultimate plan for us has never changed

We love you so much
Our princess, our daughter
Soon you will never be alone
You will have a family- a mother and father

Sweet child of my heart
The day is drawing near
When you ll be in our arms forever
And you will never need to fear

So until that day comes
When God brings us together
Please know you're wanted and loved
And we will be a family forever.



Therefore as it is written: "Let the one who boasts boast in the Lord."
1 Corinthians 1:31

Saturday, May 21, 2016

Isaiah 60:22

One would think that after waiting for almost 3 1/2 years I would be better at being patient.  However, after receiving the update in April that 20 children files were going to be sent to our agency at any moment, that spark of desire inside of me was lite into full force.  Everything in that moment,  in one short email became real.  Words cannot describe the mix of emotions that I felt as I reviewed each individual picture of those beautiful 20 children.  Our daughter...the one we have been waiting on for almost 3 1/2 years is quite possibly one of those beautiful 20 faces.  I find myself thinking of her and praying for her more than ever.  My mind is always wandering to thoughts of her.  What does she look like?  How old is she?  Does she know how much she is loved?  I dream often of the day when all these questions are answered and we meet her face to face.  What an amazing testimony to God's faithfulness that day will be. 
 
While we wait, I feel like I check my email more than the average person should and never leave my phone more than an ear shot away.  Our time is coming and I don't want to miss that call.  It's quite amazing how we are one phone call away from our lives completely changing.  However, while we wait for the phone to ring, I was reminded yesterday through a simple Facebook message, that when that time is right, the Lord will make it happen.
 
 
I know God's timing is perfect.  I know God has hand chosen our child before we even considered adoption.  I know God knows what is best for our family.  But even knowing all that, the wait is hard.  However, I know that God is using this time for a purpose and I am still able to find peace in knowing that the God who created the universe has every little detail planned out.  When the time is right, the Lord will make it happen.
 
Currently we are around number 7 on "the list" for a little girl.  Our agency hopes to hear word from China about the twenty files soon.  But just like with any adoption, the wait is unpredictable.  We could know tomorrow or we may not know for months.  So while we wait, I will continue to hold onto the peace of knowing, when the time is right, the Lord will make it happen. 
 
Thank you for all of your prayers and support. 
 
God Bless.
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Thursday, May 19, 2016

No words needed...

I found this video today and couldn't help but share. This video explain why we have chosen to follow this path. God chose us, we are merely his instruments...

https://www.facebook.com/lifesongfororphans/videos/10156824369970464/

Tuesday, May 10, 2016

Gobena Coffee Fundraiser


Good Morning!!!

 

Four weeks have passed since our agency announced they were anticipating receiving 20 children’s files from China in the near future.  Not a day goes by that we are not thinking about our little girl and checking our email and AWAA’s Blog for an update.  We know God’s timing is perfect, He knows where our little girl is at this given moment and He is watching over her as I type this very moment.  He is so faithful and good.  We are incredibly excited to see light at the end of the tunnel of our 3 year journey to bringing our daughter home and all the Glory to Him who will make this dream possible.   

 

While we wait for an update from our agency, we are keeping busy by continuing our efforts to raise the financial means to bring our little girl home.  Currently, we have completed 4 adoption grants/loans and we are hoping to hear back from them soon.  Typically these agencies take around 4-8 weeks to review each application. 

 

In addition to grants/loans, we are excited to announce we have teamed up with Gobena Coffee for our next fundraiser!!  Gobena Coffee was originally started by fellow adoptive parents, Steve and Danae, who brought home their little girl from Ethiopia.  Here is their story on how Gobena came to be:

 

In the summer of 2007, Steve and Danae traveled to Ethiopia to adopt their little girl, Eva. The contrast in cultures was amazing. The Ethiopians they met lived in poverty, but were rich in their sense of community and in the closeness of their relationships.

Gobena (pronounced gō•bĭn•ŭh), a 70 year-old farmer, found Eva abandoned in the yard near his home. “Because she is God’s soul,” Gobena and his wife, Mulunesh, took care of the  newborn baby for about a month.  During this time Gobena and Mulunesh realized that they would not be able to provide for Eva, so they traveled 150 miles to a police station to seek help.  At the police station they learned about adoption and realized that putting Eva in an orphanage to be adopted was the best option for the child.  Eva is now a permanent member of Steve and Danae’s family. She is truly a blessing from God and a constant reminder that there is always hope, as long as there are people who care.  Gobena’s sense of community inspired Steve and Danae to start this coffee ministry where 100% of the net profits were reinvested in the lives of orphan children throughout the world. In 2012, Lifesong accepted the challenge of growing Gobena… where each bag of coffee sold blesses the lives of children.

 

We are excited for this opportunity to team up with this amazing company.  For every purchase made through our fundraising site, Gobena will donate 50% toward our adoption and 50% will go toward orphan care throughout the world!!  If you are interested in making a purchase, please check out the link below:

 


 

As always, thank you for your support and prayers as we continue forward on our mission to bring our little girl home.

 

God Bless

Monday, April 4, 2016

Praising Him during the wait!!

It is crazy to think that it has been over three years since we began this journey. So much has changed in three years with our adoption, as well as with our family currently in our home. We have been stretched in so many different directions that sometimes I didn't know if we were coming or going. But through tough decisions and difficult times I have learned and truly believe that God is in it all. He gives us strength and courage to do what seems impossible at the time. Over these past three years I have seen how God uses every situation, every encounter and every moment for His purpose. I would be lying if I didn't say that there haven't been times I grew impatient but I am so confident in knowing these past three years have not been wasted. As we grow closer to meeting our daughter, I have to take a moment to stop and praise Him for the wait because He was using this time to start a transformation in me that will continue for a lifetime. Thank you Lord Jesus for teaching me to Praise you in all circumstances!! :-)

We have been so incredibly blessed over these past three years as well with the incredibly generosity and love of friends, family and complete strangers. We are so grateful for all your prayers, donations and words of encouragement as we continue on our journey. So I want to take the time to thank everyone, so thank you!!

As far as where we stand with our adoption, we are around number ninth on the list. Our agency anticipates our journey to meet our daughter will conclude by the end of this year. But where one journey ends another begins as a family of 5. We are very excited of the road ahead and we will continue to keep you updated as we continue to move closer to meeting our baby girl.

Thank you and God Bless!!